Night of Aggression

The night started off like any other Jago, with laughter, music, and dance. But then, out of nowhere, things took a sharp turn. My husband’s sister’s husband suddenly lashed out at me, yelling and swinging aggressively. The tension in the air was felt as he took his anger out on the surroundings, smacking windows and doors in rage.

I tried to diffuse the situation, apologizing and trying to understand what had triggered such a violent reaction. But my attempts only seemed to further enrage him. In that moment, fear gripped me as I realized the severity of the situation and the fact I hadn’t done anything. The threat of physical harm was overwhelming, and I felt unsafe in his presence.

What followed was a wave of emotions – confusion, fear, and a deep sense of unease. Concerned individuals checked on me, condemning his actions and attributing them to his drunken state. They emphasized that his behavior was unacceptable. On the other hand, my husband’s sister urged me to remain silent and avoid raising the situation for the sake of someone’s wedding week. While I understood the importance of maintaining peace, the lack of acknowledgment or support left me feeling isolated and vulnerable.

The horrific incident is a reminder of how quickly situations can escalate to dangerous levels. The feeling of being in harm’s way, being unsure of what might happen next, was a terrifying one. The lack of accountability from my in laws and sisters or their husband, no apology, or concern for my well-being deepened my sense of insecurity and unease. I continue to feel afraid, threatened and unsafe with my in laws and the family members.